I wish I could answer this question.

My husband and I have been separated for a little over two months now. He and I have started to talk like once a week. However, he wants to have conversations without expectations. He doesn’t want to talk about our relationship or lack thereof. Any time I start to talk about what happened he gets frustrated and says that he can’t continue to talk in circles…he says that these conversations aren’t making it better that they aren’t bringing us closer together.

I think that he doesn’t want to face that fact that he fucked up and if he talks about it he would have to admit to it. He says the continual lies he has told were to make it easier on me…I told him no, the lies made it easier on him. I’ve told him that for me it is the knowing that that can help me to move on and not to continue to bring this up. The truth will always come out and it can only make things worse.